While most of the Ex2 System review blogs that you'll read out there will vomit out the same information that you could read off of the Ex2 System homepage, I wanted to give you a little insight. I want you to understand what you're going to go through and avoid some of the pitfalls that I encountered when using the methods in Matt Huston's Ex2 System.
All of this is true so listen up. This is not a bunch of garbage and I hope that you'll remember this stuff when you're confronted with it because it is bound to happen to you.
Now, with that being said, my story goes something like this. I was in love with a girl. I loved her with all my heart. I was lucky in that she fell in love with me too. As a matter of fact, we wound up getting married. As it so happens sometimes in life, things got screwed up. She wound up divorcing me. I lost track of her for several years but we did wind up finding each other several years later.
We fell in love again and it looked like everything was going to be great... but again... as sometimes happens in life, things got complicated. I lost her again but this time it was worse than the first time. It baffled me that she could go from not being able to get enough of me to suddenly as cold as ice to me, but it happened. The entire circumstances are something that I'm going to keep somewhat private but needless to say, I had every intention of trying to get her back.
She wound up going back to her ex, which further complicated issues. You might find yourself in this situation at some point and if you do or are in that predicament, my heart goes out to you. There's nothing worse than sitting alone thinking about the woman that you love with some other guy, especially if you know that guy and you think that he's an idiot.
For me, things were terrible. I didn't have the strength to go to work... shower,... brush my teeth or even eat. I didn't want to do anything. I just wanted to sit there until she came back to me. I tried being positive and optimistic about everything and her family even told me that everything was going to be fine. They told me that this little spat would soon be over and she's come to her senses...
It was about two weeks into this ordeal that I started searching online for a solution. There had to be a way to get her back. I was looking for that silver bullet. I needed a plan to win her over and get my life back. It was then that I found a Matt Huston Ex2 System review. It all sort of made sense and I had hope... so I pulled the trigger and downloaded the Ex2 System.
At first I was excited... a real plan that had worked for other guys. Other guys had used this stuff to get their ex back. If it worked for them then it was sure to work for me, right? So I jumped in with both feet. I stayed up that night and read it from one end to the other... then I read it again. I took the day off from work and stayed home and read it again.
The Ex2 System was laid out in a pretty easy to understand manner. Every week you did something different and added something to your routine. It all sounded easy enough to me... until it came to some of the more advanced stuff. I had read it and I understood it but could I go through with it? Could I play these mind games with the woman I loved? She knew me better than anyone in the world. Wouldn't she know that I was just trying to mess with her mind? What if she called my bluff and these methods just didn't work. I was frozen... I was paralyzed with fear of what might happen.
Bad news is that I balked... I didn't follow through. I couldn't do it... I just couldn't. She wound up staying with her ex and I wound up staying alone...I still have contact with her on a regular basis and for a while that just sucked. I would see her with him or with one of her friends and they treated me like garbage. They would yell at me and treat me like a pathetic loser. She would tell me that she was sorry that things were over but that she loved this other guy. They would tell me to forget about her and he would be sure to put his arm around her like he owned her or something. It hurt... it hurt a lot...
Until one day... I just sort of had enough. I remembered everything that I had read in the Ex2 System... all the stuff that I didn't have the guts to do. All the words that I didn't have the gonads to say. Things started off as they usually did until I decided to stand up for myself. I didn't care about getting her back. I just wanted her to want me back again so I could break her heart the same way that she did mine.
I unloaded on her in a cool, calm manner. I unleashed the Cracken and with a few words I said all that I needed to say. After moving the conversation in the direction that I wanted to go thanks to Matt Huston and the Ex2 System, I uttered two sentences. That was all it took. Just two sentences.
At first, I didn't think it did much good. She fell silent but I figure that it was just because the conversation had ended. She didn't have anything to say and neither did I. I went home and on the ride home I thought about it a little bit. Did I see something in her eyes? What was that? Was that pain or shock or was she just surprised by what I said. I promptly forgot about it and that day ended just like all the others since our breakup.
The next morning I got a phone call from her asking me to meet her. I agreed but I didn't know what was up. I had forgotten about the night before. We met in the parking lot of a coffee shop and when I first saw her I knew that something was wrong. I even asked her what was up and told her that she looked like hell... well, it was the truth. She's a beautiful woman... but she looked bad. All I could think was that someone had died.
She looked at me and told me that she wasn't ok. She said that she had been up all night... that she hadn't slept a wink and that she had been crying all night. I asked her what was up and she asked me if what I had said the day before was true. She pleaded with me to tell her that it wasn't true. I looked down and thought to myself "damn.. this stuff does work" and then I looked her straight in the eye and told her that I never lied.
She begged me and pleaded with me to tell her that I loved her. I told her that I couldn't do that... she was with someone else and I didn't want to be that guy... She cried some more and told me that she still loved me and that even though she wasn't with me, that she always figured that we would end up together in the end. In short, she realized that she didn't have a leg to stand on because she was with someone else so she cut me off at the pass.
All of this went on for over an hour. Her crying and begging me to tell her that I loved her... me pointing out the fact that she was with someone else... her talking about when we were together and all the memories that she had and how the guy she was with didn't love her the way that I did and how I didn't understand. That is was like she was with him but that she still loved me and she didn't really love him. I was disgusted yet mildly amused!
I didn't push it any further for several reasons. First, I didn't want to be that guy. Second, I didn't want to deal with the drama. I had proven to myself that the methods in the Ex2 System worked and they worked remarkably well when I actually used them. If I had wanted to, I could have gotten her back when I initially had bought the Ex2 System. I lacked the faith and courage to follow through.
Now, it's up to you. You can do what I did and wait a few months... wait until you don't really care anymore and you're all pissed off... or you can try these methods they way that they were intended. Like Matt Huston says, your window of opportunity might be closing.
I think that if I had the same mindset in the beginning as I did when I finally got fed up, I could have gotten her back. Actually, I know I could have gotten her back. If I had pulled myself together and realized that I had nothing to lose and everything to gain by just manning up and hitting her between the eyes with the same methods that I used from the Ex2 System on that fateful day then... well, I'd have the love of my life in the other room waiting on me... curled up in my bed every night... the smell of a home cooked meal in the air... I'd have my best friend back to talk with about my day and to listen to... I'd have someone to share vacations with and holidays with and birthdays with...
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Look, just don't screw up like I did. I'm begging you. If you love her and you want to get her back... don't live my life. Don't live the life of regret where you are torn up inside because some other guy is living your life. Don't let it happen. You get her back or die trying. Well, not literally die but you know what I mean. Don't be scared... don't be afraid... follow through and hit her emotionally like I did to my ex but you follow through with the Ex2 System, ok?
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